There Is Life After Death

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I had no words after the call. A barrage of emotions forced me into suspended animation reluctantly absorbing the immense pain your sudden exit created. You are one of the most infectiously beautiful flowers that has ever been plucked from our collective concrete garden. I can’t turn back the hands of time or have a do-over. If I could, I know, you wouldn’t want me to. Understanding that, made it possible to step outside myself and be there to help Tobias orchestrate a home going celebration beyond anything you would have planned yourself. If you didn’t know who loved you, you do now that your spirit roams freely.

Outside myself looking at me, I suffered sadness in silence, until the words came thru me to share.

TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 12, 2019It’s okay to grieve when someone you love suddenly, or gradually, or for some reason they are gone. You’re in a new state of being. Many different feelings may come because so much of the relationship is not available for you anymore. Sometimes anger. Some people are angry with the people who have gone. You may say, why did you leave me like this without a goodbye or nothing. Why didn’t you tell me? I don’t deserve a goodbye? Some time to prepare? I don’t get time to say good be?Others may get angry with God/source energy/universe and say, how could you take them from me? Or even with themselves. Why didn’t I pay more attention? I should have done more. In this moment, right here right now, I’m asking you, to give up your sense of rights or the feelings that a sense of entitlement affords you. It may sound strange but hear me out. Stop thinking, just because you exist your entitled to all these things you are asking. Sure, you can say you are entitled to be happy or you are entitled to that relationship or to even a sense of security. Basic human dignities should be available to everyone. However,